Rowan Tree 🌳
maybe this time i'll win :)
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In your locality mainly, but also further afield.
I feel confident enough and am quite relaxed for the most part about holding my BF's hand, being openly queer and talking about it. But I have noticed a rise in homophobic/transphobic language in public places lately, particularly among younger people. I don't know if it's because I'm using public transport more than normal at the minute, but in the last two months there have been four quite notable events on buses when young people (aged approx. 12 - mid twenties) have been shouting homophobic abuse that has gone beyond calling someone gay in a 'jokey' way, so much so that I've had to ask the driver to deal with it, which is a huge stretch for me because I'm really not confrontational and hate approaching people.
I think there's been an increase in homophobic violence here too. Generally I do feel safe in public areas but I am quite naive in that sense, and recent events have shifted my mindset a little. Again, I'm not sure if it's on the rise or I'm just more frequently in situations where it's been happening at the minute, or if it's a general backlash against LGBT+ media becoming more mainstream and it's just a very vocal minority. It is depressing that it's been coming from young people.
I feel confident enough and am quite relaxed for the most part about holding my BF's hand, being openly queer and talking about it. But I have noticed a rise in homophobic/transphobic language in public places lately, particularly among younger people. I don't know if it's because I'm using public transport more than normal at the minute, but in the last two months there have been four quite notable events on buses when young people (aged approx. 12 - mid twenties) have been shouting homophobic abuse that has gone beyond calling someone gay in a 'jokey' way, so much so that I've had to ask the driver to deal with it, which is a huge stretch for me because I'm really not confrontational and hate approaching people.
I think there's been an increase in homophobic violence here too. Generally I do feel safe in public areas but I am quite naive in that sense, and recent events have shifted my mindset a little. Again, I'm not sure if it's on the rise or I'm just more frequently in situations where it's been happening at the minute, or if it's a general backlash against LGBT+ media becoming more mainstream and it's just a very vocal minority. It is depressing that it's been coming from young people.